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COMENSANews July 2010
05
Leonie Prinsloo

By Leonie Prinsloo, Grolife Coaching

I had the privilege of seeing a newborn baby, only three days old. I looked at him and was amazed at the perfection. The physical development of children is commented on and something that you immediately see. What about the mental/brain development? The brain develops at an uneven pace, or as what is sometimes referred to as a predictable sequence. It can be described as a wave development, where the different parts of the brain develop at different times.


Neuroscientists have shown that the brain is affected by environmental conditions throughout the entire process of development. Situations and circumstances prior to birth have a direct influence on the development of the brain.

This includes the type of nourishment, care, surroundings and stimulation your child receives.

This article gives us a summary of the development which takes place in your child’s brain and what practical activities can be done to stimulate the development of your child’s brain.

Before Birth

At conception the sperm and egg meet to form a single cell determining the genetic potential. About 60% of the genes are dedicated to brain development. The brain produces many more cells than it will need. By the time the foetus is twenty weeks old, about half of these cells are deliberately shed. The remaining cells are organised into forty different physical areas that will broadly govern senses and skills such as vision, language and muscle movement.

The Infant and Toddlers

At birth the brain has developed the total 100 billion brain cells, or neurons. However, the brain is a work in progress. Most of the neurons are still immature. The cells need to be activated and the connections between neurons are weak or have not yet been formed. The child needs interaction that includes all senses, because his/her brain has already developed the neurons. We can only help to connect the neurons through care, touch, interaction, stimulating games and a safe environment.

At birth the infant can see, hear, smell and respond to touch. Almost immediately after birth the newborn’s brain begins to form trillions of connections and pathways between the neurons. Although genes begin the process of brain development, it is the experiences of the child that now start to take over this process. These experiences trigger the electrical activity necessary to enable the brain to develop connections and grow.

As the brain structure develops, the child will begin to reach the milestones associated with child development. Milestones in your child’s life, such as grabbing an object, making sounds and learning to speak, crawling and walking. The combination of the neurons and the formed pathways will form the unique composition of your child’s brain.

An 8 month old baby, growing up in a simulating, secure and loving environment will have roughly 500 trillion connections. By the age of two, an infant has developed around 1000 trillion of these connections – twice as many as the parents. Although the connections continue to form throughout life they have reached their highest density (15,000 synapses per neuron).

By the age of three, the foundations for future functioning are mostly established. Your child’s thinking, language, attitudes and aptitudes are almost completed. That sounds scary, but through mentoring, coaching and new ways of approaching children will guide them to break previous habits or situations. The child will be able to adapt to a new way of thinking.

Teenage and Early Adulthood

From the age of 10 until late adolescence, the brain begins to prune some of these connections. Those connections which are not sufficiently strong, have been neglected or are used infrequently are lost. An 18 year old will have the same amount of connections as an 8 month old. The result is a strong and powerful mind, but less ability to adapt. The connections remain stable, which will give you a unique personality. This will ultimately influence a child’s thoughts, emotions and reactions to situations

“A baby born with a potential for greatness encoded in his genes may turn out to have a gift for logic or a brilliant criminal mind, the direction defined by his early experiences.” – Nash, J.M. (1997). How a child’s brain develops. Time Magazine, 3 February.

The most important is for parents to stimulate and spent quality time with their children!
Age of your child Suggested activity Comments
     
Before birth Listen to classical music
Talk to your baby
Your words and the music will stimulate the growth
New Born Touch, hold and hug Touch is the first sense
Infant Talk, sing and read to your child  
Toddler Roll the ball sideways, pointing out colours and showing photos Visual development and early stages of motor skills
Preschooler Games and drawing pictures Reading will improve their brain development and vocabulary
Young adult Quality time with your children. Discussing relevant issues. Talking and listening to their stories. Allow them to freely express themselves. Encourage them to do what they are interested in. A strong and powerful mind, with set ways.

Hugging, Holding and Listening to your child will enhance brain development.

Your child is growing. Grow with them and stimulate them in as many areas as possible. Their young minds have all the potential to be great. We sometimes “steal” that by saying: “Don’t do that”, “Stop - you will get hurt”. “Careful you may fall”.

Researchers say that we need to encourage growth and let children play creative and imaginative games. Limit the television and computer games and allow them to explore and create their own games.
There are so many books on how to raise the perfect child. There is no such thing. Parents need to guide and love our children for who they are. Parents play an important role in their development. The early years are the most important for brain development which will evolve in a well balanced and emotional stable child. Your child will grow. Parents need to love, hug, and listen!

 

References

http://brainwave.org.nz/stages-of-brain-development-from-before-birth-to-18/
Stages of Brain Development – from before birth to 18; May 20, 2007
http://www.howkidsdevelop.com/developSkills.html
Nash, J.M. (1997). How a child’s brain develops. Time Magazine, 3 February.
Hepper, P., "Unravelling our beginnings", The Psychologist, 18:474-477, 2005.

About the Author:
Leonie is a specialist in experiential learning. The methodology of her coaching sessions are experienced base. Her passion for the development of people is the personal driver with each coachee. She is the Founder of Gro Life Coaching, where she focusses on youth development and emotional growth with youth and students. Contact her at 082 718 7052, or e-mail her at leonie@grolife.co.za. Website: www.grolife.co.za
 
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